Biblical Congregationalism

I'm a Conservative Congregationalist, who believes in biblical Congregationalism.

Let me tell you what that means to me.

First of all, biblical Congregationalism is NOT democracy! Democracy came from Congregationalism, but the two are not the same.

Here is why:
1) The Bible clearly teaches that the "Church" belongs to Jesus Christ. He is the Lord and Ruler of every local church.
2) Democracy is when each of us is allowed his/her opinions to be heard.  That is not the purpose of voting in Biblical Congregationalism.
3) The Bible clearly teaches that every believer is able to hear the voice of our Head, Jesus Christ. This is called "the priesthood of every believer", and comes from 1 Peter 2:4-10, etc. 

The Apostle Paul listened to the advice and counsel of a) other prophets and apostles; b) other elders, and c) women believers.

Now, I know that Congregationalism has been pictured as a bunch of individuals stating their own opinions.  This kind of thinking is wrong, and results in much quarrelling, back-biting, and splits.

However, I believe the Bible clearly teaches that all true believers have the responsibility to listen carefully to Jesus Christ, and then state the thoughts He gives to them.  I have learned much from the humble individual believer who counsels me, corrects me, and even chastizes me when I am wrong.

There have been times when I was sure I was right; and then, someone (both men and women, elected leaders and "just church members") comes to me, or stands up in a meeting, and lovingly reveals my wrong thinking, and shows me Jesus Christ's better answer.

I want you to think this through with me.